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Seduce Women by Stating Your Intent
A statement of intent (SOI) is used when qualifying or escalating a girl. As a pickup artist, you want to show genuine interest
in women. You want to show them that you're not gay and do in fact want to view them sexually. An SOI is a form of IOI
(Indicator of Interest) that you use on a woman that deserves it. An SOI is not randomly used but is a way for a pickup artist
to reward a woman's good behavior and escalate the interaction.
An SOI is simply when you state your intent with a woman. It should be genuine and should be used only after a girl has
qualified. In other words, a woman should earn an SOI first by revealing her personality or opening up to you. Then, you
reward her good behavior by telling her what you think about her.
When the PUA states his intent, it should be based off of the girl's personality to create a genuine connection as well as to
sexually escalate. A random SOI is something like, "I think you're hot." This can work, and it does sexually escalate, but it
does not build genuine connection and is not unique to the two of you. Millions of other woman are hot, what makes her
different? Why is she special?
For instance, maybe you're talking to a girl and she reveals to you that she teaches pre-school. She talks about how she loves
children although sometimes they are annoying to her, but she endures the pain. After her qualifying statement, as a pickup
artist, you respond by saying, "Wow, I just noticed that I find you so sexy because you have such a caring and gentle
personality." Now, there is no doubt in her head that you're attracted to her. This is good. She gave you IOI's, she qualified
herself to you, and you reward her, thus escalating the interaction.
There can be a variety of different SOI's from opening a woman up until having sex with her. You should SOI her before
getting her phone number to avoid looking like a player or looking needy. Tell her why you want her phone number and why
she deserves the opportunity to give it to you. "I have to run... but I really enjoyed your company and it's rare to meet
somebody who has such good conversational skills. Let me grab your number and we'll get together some other time."
You may sexually escalate and seduce women by using sexual SOI's. On a day 2, you may say something like, "I noticed
today that you have the sexiest personality. Your great conversational skills won me over. I'm surprised I haven't made love to
you in front of everybody." This SOI propels the interaction forward by initiating a sexual, more romantic frame.
Your interaction with a woman should always be escalating. If a pickup artist finds himself talking about fluff for 30 minutes
with a woman and doesn't escalate at all, the woman will get bored and the interaction will be stale. You will Demonstrate
Lower Value (DLV) by not having the confidence to move the interaction forward. You are the man. You are the dominant
one. You should lead women from the beginning until the end.
A statement of intent (SOI) is used when qualifying or escalating a girl. As a pickup artist, you want to show genuine interest
in women. You want to show them that you're not gay and do in fact want to view them sexually. An SOI is a form of IOI
(Indicator of Interest) that you use on a woman that deserves it. An SOI is not randomly used but is a way for a pickup artist
to reward a woman's good behavior and escalate the interaction.
An SOI is simply when you state your intent with a woman. It should be genuine and should be used only after a girl has
qualified. In other words, a woman should earn an SOI first by revealing her personality or opening up to you. Then, you
reward her good behavior by telling her what you think about her.
When the PUA states his intent, it should be based off of the girl's personality to create a genuine connection as well as to
sexually escalate. A random SOI is something like, "I think you're hot." This can work, and it does sexually escalate, but it
does not build genuine connection and is not unique to the two of you. Millions of other woman are hot, what makes her
different? Why is she special?
For instance, maybe you're talking to a girl and she reveals to you that she teaches pre-school. She talks about how she loves
children although sometimes they are annoying to her, but she endures the pain. After her qualifying statement, as a pickup
artist, you respond by saying, "Wow, I just noticed that I find you so sexy because you have such a caring and gentle
personality." Now, there is no doubt in her head that you're attracted to her. This is good. She gave you IOI's, she qualified
herself to you, and you reward her, thus escalating the interaction.
There can be a variety of different SOI's from opening a woman up until having sex with her. You should SOI her before
getting her phone number to avoid looking like a player or looking needy. Tell her why you want her phone number and why
she deserves the opportunity to give it to you. "I have to run... but I really enjoyed your company and it's rare to meet
somebody who has such good conversational skills. Let me grab your number and we'll get together some other time."
You may sexually escalate and seduce women by using sexual SOI's. On a day 2, you may say something like, "I noticed
today that you have the sexiest personality. Your great conversational skills won me over. I'm surprised I haven't made love to
you in front of everybody." This SOI propels the interaction forward by initiating a sexual, more romantic frame.
Your interaction with a woman should always be escalating. If a pickup artist finds himself talking about fluff for 30 minutes
with a woman and doesn't escalate at all, the woman will get bored and the interaction will be stale. You will Demonstrate
Lower Value (DLV) by not having the confidence to move the interaction forward. You are the man. You are the dominant
one. You should lead women from the beginning until the end.
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How To Pick Up Women by Being Direct
Many Pickup Artists avoid going Direct at all costs. It's a shame, really, because if a pua goes direct under proper calibration
and delivery it grants huge benefits.
For one, a Pickup Artist will be able to escalate the interaction forward quicker when Direct is used. Secondly, a huge amount
of value and attraction is gained if calibrated properly by the PUA. Although some women will flat out reject you when going
direct, the majority will build a ton of attraction towards you.
Possibly the most important thing a Pickup Artist can do when going Direct is to be and look genuine. A pua should not come
off as a horndog when going direct. The woman should not think you're out saying the same line to each and every woman.
So how do you look genuine? Firstly, don't talk too quickly. In fact, after engaging the woman, slow down your conversation
and act as if you're saying what you are spontaneously. If you speak too quickly it will sound scripted!
Secondly, a good Pickup Artist will add details to the direct opener to make it seem more spontaneous and believable. "Hi, I
think you are cute so I wanted to say Hi," can work, but not as frequently as, "Hi, I'm kinda in a rush but I saw you walking
by and thought you had the cutest style. I would have regret not saying HI." Make her feel special. There are millions of cute
girls about. Let her know why you wanted to talk to her specifically.
Thirdly, SMILE. You should open a woman direct expecting success. Look like the friendliest guy in the world. Give her the
compliment without expecting anything in return. Be selfless.
And don't forget to qualify her before obtaining her phone number! You don't want to number close a girl upon physical
attraction alone. This won't make her feel very special and she'll likely have no rapport or connection with you. Ask her about
her hobbies, her favorite restaurant, or what she's passionate about. Act interested in her life. Act captivated by it. She'll feel
even more attraction towards you because you're showing interest in her life.
So, become a pua that utilizes direct game. Slow down your delivery as to appear unscripted, add details to the opener that are
unique to the situation, be friendly, and smile.
Women dream about being picked up off the floor by a confident man. They want to be flattered. Sometimes, direct is the way
to go. Other times, going direct won't build enough attraction for the woman, especially if she's hit on by alpha males
frequently. If you don't receive IOI's upon delivering your direct opener, transition into indirect until IOI's are received.
Many Pickup Artists avoid going Direct at all costs. It's a shame, really, because if a pua goes direct under proper calibration
and delivery it grants huge benefits.
For one, a Pickup Artist will be able to escalate the interaction forward quicker when Direct is used. Secondly, a huge amount
of value and attraction is gained if calibrated properly by the PUA. Although some women will flat out reject you when going
direct, the majority will build a ton of attraction towards you.
Possibly the most important thing a Pickup Artist can do when going Direct is to be and look genuine. A pua should not come
off as a horndog when going direct. The woman should not think you're out saying the same line to each and every woman.
So how do you look genuine? Firstly, don't talk too quickly. In fact, after engaging the woman, slow down your conversation
and act as if you're saying what you are spontaneously. If you speak too quickly it will sound scripted!
Secondly, a good Pickup Artist will add details to the direct opener to make it seem more spontaneous and believable. "Hi, I
think you are cute so I wanted to say Hi," can work, but not as frequently as, "Hi, I'm kinda in a rush but I saw you walking
by and thought you had the cutest style. I would have regret not saying HI." Make her feel special. There are millions of cute
girls about. Let her know why you wanted to talk to her specifically.
Thirdly, SMILE. You should open a woman direct expecting success. Look like the friendliest guy in the world. Give her the
compliment without expecting anything in return. Be selfless.
And don't forget to qualify her before obtaining her phone number! You don't want to number close a girl upon physical
attraction alone. This won't make her feel very special and she'll likely have no rapport or connection with you. Ask her about
her hobbies, her favorite restaurant, or what she's passionate about. Act interested in her life. Act captivated by it. She'll feel
even more attraction towards you because you're showing interest in her life.
So, become a pua that utilizes direct game. Slow down your delivery as to appear unscripted, add details to the opener that are
unique to the situation, be friendly, and smile.
Women dream about being picked up off the floor by a confident man. They want to be flattered. Sometimes, direct is the way
to go. Other times, going direct won't build enough attraction for the woman, especially if she's hit on by alpha males
frequently. If you don't receive IOI's upon delivering your direct opener, transition into indirect until IOI's are received.
Don't Be an Over-Negging PUA!
Pickup Artists frequently enter sets assuming lower value. They assume that the women are always on the pedestal and must
be kicked off of it. Sometimes, this is true. Many times, it is not. A PUA that assumes lower value will frequently insult
attractive women from the start. Instead, you should be assuming perceived higher value unless IOD's are received. You'd be
surprised. As a pickup artist, many times gorgeous 9's and 10's don't require many negs at all.
As a PUA, you are much more likely to get the girl if you enter the set as a friendly, warm, welcome guy rather than insulting
the girls or coming off as rude and too cocky. Many times women will assume you are higher value based off of pre-selection
you may have created, social proof, body language, voice tonality, and humor alone, before you have even made your
entrance to the set. As a result, women will give you IOI's as soon as or before you approach them.
Focus on getting the girl to stop and listen, first, by being friendly and sincere so they will feel socially obligated to talk to you.
Being rude will many times turn them away quickly. Being too cocky may turn them off if you haven't yet built enough
attraction. If IOI's are received right away, there is no reason to neg. Negging upon receiving IOI's is an example of punishing
good behavior. Do this and she will hesitate to show you good behavior in the future. If you and your target are consistently
exchanging IOI's, sexual escalation should be the focus, not attraction/negging/DHVing.
If an IOD is received despite being friendly and warm, it's your queue that she believes she is higher value. THEN is the time
to NEG and remove her from the pedestal. Remember, YOU ARE higher value. She is NEVER higher value. Neg only if she
thinks she is.
Hook and Seduce Women More Consistently
It's important to realize that openers should succeed in their purpose nearly 100% of the time. An opener is only intended to
initiate the conversation. It is not created to lead the conversation. If your openers are not stopping or engaging women nearly
100% of the time, there is a problem with your delivery.
When you ask a moving woman for the time, does she stop? If you experimented and asked hundreds of women on the street
what the time was, nearly all of them would gladly stop to give you the time. Thus, this opener is very successful in
completing its primary objective of engaging the woman.
The solution to engaging and hooking more women? Be sincere. Don't be too cocky at first. Do these two things and all
women will feel socially obligated to stop to listen to you. In fact, using "Excuse me?" on moving sets will increase your
success rate of getting women to stop on the street. If you are interrupting a conversation the women are having, don't
hesitate to throw in a "sorry to interrupt, but..." to prevent yourself from looking intrusive or rude.
You won't be DLVing by being a little sincere at the beginning. You will be engaging and hooking more sets.
Remember to Return IOIs! Reward Women!
One of the biggest mistakes pickup artists make is punishing good behavior. When good behavior is punished you become an
Unobtainable Prize. The girl will eventually blow you off despite being attracted to you because she felt devalued talking to
you. When she is being sincere and warm to you she expects it in return.
If opening indirect, you should not be showing much interest until IOIs are received. When you start receiving IOIs and it is
clear that she is hooked and attracted to you, it is then that you reward her behavior. You should not reward her by
complimenting her looks (although it can work) but by rewarding her for something she said. Rewarding her for something
she says creates a sense of genuine rapport, as if you connect on deeper emotional levels than just physically.
As a PUA, don't catch yourself ignoring her IOIs. Stop playing Hard-to-Get thinking that you need to show "disinterest."
Disinterest is only showed on your part until IOIs are received by her. You should return IOIs as soon as they are received,
both verbally and non-verbally. Girls want to be lifted off their feet. They don't want to be twirling their hair and smiling at
you while you talk about buying a blouse for your ex for 10 minutes while pretending to be uninterested.
Using Calibration to Seduce Women Quicker
So, you're making your approach and you're walking towards a woman you find attractive. Should you go Direct or Indirect?
It's easy to choose depending on the scenario. If she's with guys it's probably smarter to go indirect. But how do you know
when to absolutely go Direct? Unless she smiled at you and gave you an approach invitation, you don't really know...
But wouldn't it be helpful to calibrate your approach towards what will work most of the time? As a pickup artist, you can
dramatically increase your success rate by altering your approach based on a woman's initial response.
So, when you approach a woman, don't decide how you're going to open until you receive an initial reaction from the woman.
Why go indirect if when you approach the girl she is smiling and curling her hair? Why go direct if the girl is obviously not yet
attracted to you? There's a simple way to find out which way to open will be most successful on a given woman.
The answer is to slow down and simplify your opener until you receive an initial reaction from the woman. Rather than
predetermining which way you want to approach a woman, walk up to her while smiling and say, "Hi!." Wait for her reaction.
Don't go into your opener until you receive a reaction. The woman's reaction will determine if you want to take the
conversation with her directly or indirectly. If she's smiling and friendly, direct will be most attractive and efficient. If she isn't
giving you indicators of interest, go indirect until enough attraction is built.
Show More Vulnerability When Building Comfort With Women!
Pickup Artists become unproductive when they sit in the attraction phase for too long. When a PUA stays in the same
emotional state throughout the entire interaction with a woman, comfort is built too slowly. When you're in the same
cocky/funny state with a girl the entire time, never responding to her questions seriously and never toning your energy level
down to a more elevated level with her, she will likely be just your friend.
Simply put, when you are receiving frequent IOI's it is time to go into qualification/comfort. Isolate her and show that you
want to get to know her. When she asks you about yourself, answer her and thread. It should not be an interview, but simply
a time to get to know each other better on a more real level. Bring her to an emotional level that is more romantic and less
friendly. This will set the frame right early on.
Don't be mistaken. You should not always answer her questions, especially in the Attraction Phase. If you have not received
many IOI's from the girl and she is asking you questions like, "So what are you doing here?" and "Did you come here to pick
up girls?" then these are shit tests! Do not answer them seriously. THIS is the time to be sarcastic and cocky/funny.
Pickup Artists frequently enter sets assuming lower value. They assume that the women are always on the pedestal and must
be kicked off of it. Sometimes, this is true. Many times, it is not. A PUA that assumes lower value will frequently insult
attractive women from the start. Instead, you should be assuming perceived higher value unless IOD's are received. You'd be
surprised. As a pickup artist, many times gorgeous 9's and 10's don't require many negs at all.
As a PUA, you are much more likely to get the girl if you enter the set as a friendly, warm, welcome guy rather than insulting
the girls or coming off as rude and too cocky. Many times women will assume you are higher value based off of pre-selection
you may have created, social proof, body language, voice tonality, and humor alone, before you have even made your
entrance to the set. As a result, women will give you IOI's as soon as or before you approach them.
Focus on getting the girl to stop and listen, first, by being friendly and sincere so they will feel socially obligated to talk to you.
Being rude will many times turn them away quickly. Being too cocky may turn them off if you haven't yet built enough
attraction. If IOI's are received right away, there is no reason to neg. Negging upon receiving IOI's is an example of punishing
good behavior. Do this and she will hesitate to show you good behavior in the future. If you and your target are consistently
exchanging IOI's, sexual escalation should be the focus, not attraction/negging/DHVing.
If an IOD is received despite being friendly and warm, it's your queue that she believes she is higher value. THEN is the time
to NEG and remove her from the pedestal. Remember, YOU ARE higher value. She is NEVER higher value. Neg only if she
thinks she is.
Hook and Seduce Women More Consistently
It's important to realize that openers should succeed in their purpose nearly 100% of the time. An opener is only intended to
initiate the conversation. It is not created to lead the conversation. If your openers are not stopping or engaging women nearly
100% of the time, there is a problem with your delivery.
When you ask a moving woman for the time, does she stop? If you experimented and asked hundreds of women on the street
what the time was, nearly all of them would gladly stop to give you the time. Thus, this opener is very successful in
completing its primary objective of engaging the woman.
The solution to engaging and hooking more women? Be sincere. Don't be too cocky at first. Do these two things and all
women will feel socially obligated to stop to listen to you. In fact, using "Excuse me?" on moving sets will increase your
success rate of getting women to stop on the street. If you are interrupting a conversation the women are having, don't
hesitate to throw in a "sorry to interrupt, but..." to prevent yourself from looking intrusive or rude.
You won't be DLVing by being a little sincere at the beginning. You will be engaging and hooking more sets.
Remember to Return IOIs! Reward Women!
One of the biggest mistakes pickup artists make is punishing good behavior. When good behavior is punished you become an
Unobtainable Prize. The girl will eventually blow you off despite being attracted to you because she felt devalued talking to
you. When she is being sincere and warm to you she expects it in return.
If opening indirect, you should not be showing much interest until IOIs are received. When you start receiving IOIs and it is
clear that she is hooked and attracted to you, it is then that you reward her behavior. You should not reward her by
complimenting her looks (although it can work) but by rewarding her for something she said. Rewarding her for something
she says creates a sense of genuine rapport, as if you connect on deeper emotional levels than just physically.
As a PUA, don't catch yourself ignoring her IOIs. Stop playing Hard-to-Get thinking that you need to show "disinterest."
Disinterest is only showed on your part until IOIs are received by her. You should return IOIs as soon as they are received,
both verbally and non-verbally. Girls want to be lifted off their feet. They don't want to be twirling their hair and smiling at
you while you talk about buying a blouse for your ex for 10 minutes while pretending to be uninterested.
Using Calibration to Seduce Women Quicker
So, you're making your approach and you're walking towards a woman you find attractive. Should you go Direct or Indirect?
It's easy to choose depending on the scenario. If she's with guys it's probably smarter to go indirect. But how do you know
when to absolutely go Direct? Unless she smiled at you and gave you an approach invitation, you don't really know...
But wouldn't it be helpful to calibrate your approach towards what will work most of the time? As a pickup artist, you can
dramatically increase your success rate by altering your approach based on a woman's initial response.
So, when you approach a woman, don't decide how you're going to open until you receive an initial reaction from the woman.
Why go indirect if when you approach the girl she is smiling and curling her hair? Why go direct if the girl is obviously not yet
attracted to you? There's a simple way to find out which way to open will be most successful on a given woman.
The answer is to slow down and simplify your opener until you receive an initial reaction from the woman. Rather than
predetermining which way you want to approach a woman, walk up to her while smiling and say, "Hi!." Wait for her reaction.
Don't go into your opener until you receive a reaction. The woman's reaction will determine if you want to take the
conversation with her directly or indirectly. If she's smiling and friendly, direct will be most attractive and efficient. If she isn't
giving you indicators of interest, go indirect until enough attraction is built.
Show More Vulnerability When Building Comfort With Women!
Pickup Artists become unproductive when they sit in the attraction phase for too long. When a PUA stays in the same
emotional state throughout the entire interaction with a woman, comfort is built too slowly. When you're in the same
cocky/funny state with a girl the entire time, never responding to her questions seriously and never toning your energy level
down to a more elevated level with her, she will likely be just your friend.
Simply put, when you are receiving frequent IOI's it is time to go into qualification/comfort. Isolate her and show that you
want to get to know her. When she asks you about yourself, answer her and thread. It should not be an interview, but simply
a time to get to know each other better on a more real level. Bring her to an emotional level that is more romantic and less
friendly. This will set the frame right early on.
Don't be mistaken. You should not always answer her questions, especially in the Attraction Phase. If you have not received
many IOI's from the girl and she is asking you questions like, "So what are you doing here?" and "Did you come here to pick
up girls?" then these are shit tests! Do not answer them seriously. THIS is the time to be sarcastic and cocky/funny.